2012年1月31日 星期二

Agave - The Healthy and Delicious Alternative to Sugar


While an occasional dessert is the ultimate mood lifter, too much sugar in your diet will be detrimental to your health. Enter agave: the healthy and delicious alternative to sugar.

When you consume sugar, insulin is produced in your body, and too much insulin has been linked to all kinds of problems such as depression, lethargy, hypertension, heart disease, type II diabetes and even Alzheimer's. So if you really enjoy sweets, agave might be the answer for you.

Agave is a sweet syrupy liquid found inside a plant that grows in Mexico. Ancient Mexicans considered the plant sacred and believed it purified the body and spirit. There are many kinds of agave plants, however, the most common is blue agave, which when fermented becomes tequila.

Only in the last decade has agave's natural sweetness been used as a sugar substitute. It requires little processing and hence is mostly available organic and raw. It's rich in vitamins and minerals and 100% vegan. And, unlike sugar, it has a low glycemic index. The higher the glycemic index, the faster your blood sugar level spikes.

You'll find agave near the baking supplies or honey in your supermarket. It can be called agave syrup" or "agave nectar". The dark and amber varieties retain more of the nutrients and have a bolder taste. In recent years, agave has been used as a sweetener in prepared foods such as cereals, cookies and ice cream. It's also makes a wonderful topping on plain, unsweetened yogurt in the morning. Add fruit and nuts, and you'll have a very healthy breakfast.

If you'd like to learn more about cooking with Agave, here are two books to check out:

Baking with Agave Nectar by Ania Catalano

Everyday Agave by Ann Astle




Debbie Gisonni is an author, speaker, personal growth expert and former corporate executive. Her books include, The Goddess of Happiness: A Down-to-Earth Guide for Heavenly Balance and Bliss, and Vita's Will: Real Life Lessons about Life Death





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10 Powerful Tips For Living a Long Healthy Life


Does it seem impossible to lead a healthy life today? If you're confused about where to start . . . I have some good news for you. By choosing a healthy lifestyle and making the right choices, you can stake your claim to a long, healthy life.

Try these ten powerful tips.

One: Exercise regularly. Nothing takes the place of good ole' exercise, which supports the body in many ways, such as strengthening the heart, boosting the immune system, combating stress and giving us more energy.

Got problems exercising?

The trick to staying fit may lie in whether or not we look forward to exercising. I recommend designing an exercise program that motivates you to follow through on your plan. In other words, have FUN exercising, and you'll do it more often. Do activities that you really enjoy.

Do your exercise program - one designed for you, custom-fitted around your likes and needs. Not someone else's. Don't follow some fad. You won't stick to it.

Two: Eat healthy. The bad news is that we tend to keep the dietary habits we learn as children for the rest of our lives. These habits are often deeply ingrained or imprinted.

And when stress sets in, we tend to revert back to old habits even more, even if we have made changes in our eating habits.

Eating a healthy diet is essential to living a good, healthy life. Most of us need more fruits and vegetables in our diets. More whole grains, beans and nuts, and less processed food. Fresh is best.

How to make it work? Eat healthy foods that you actually like!

And fight stress with a plan that does not include eating more!

Three: Simply Don't Smoke.

It's tough to quit. But you can do it. It's actually easier to quit if you've tried to quit several times before and failed.

By learning from your mistakes, and figuring out what went wrong last time, you can put together a smoking cessation program that actually works better for you. Consult your doctor or other healthcare professional for assistance. It is now easier to quit than ever before!

Among middle-aged men, smoking triples the risk of dying from cardiovascular disease. Now women are dying from heart disease at alarming rates. Take it seriously.

As someone who has suffered a heart attack, I can assure you, it ain't fun! And not everyone lives through it.

Four: Keep Your Weight Respectable Obesity is a significant risk factor in developing a variety of diseases. Controlling one's weight may seem hard, but it's no harder than being overweight, and having to suffer from all the ramifications.

Develop a support system to help you lose weight. Don't go it alone. Tell as many people about your weight loss goals as possible, and get as many partners to help you reach your goals.

Follow a structured program -- structure helps! Without a program it is much harder for most.

Five: Get regular medical exams and screenings. Annual check-ups help detect problems early. Keep tabs on your blood pressure, blood sugar, the health of your skin, eyes and ears, and check for prostrate and colon problems. Early detection may save your life.

Six: Develop a Stress Management Program that really works for you. Remember? Stress is the silent killer. But if you have a system, you'll be able to deal with the stress you carry around with you a little at a time.

Start by not letting stress build up . . . take care of it on a daily basis!

You need to have a plan to manage your increasing stress.

Even good changes can be stressful.

Again, you're more likely to follow your plan if it includes enjoyable activities and you do not think of it as being complicated or hard work.

Seven: Save your money. We are saving too little, and we live our lives increasingly on credit, which is very anxiety-provoking. We should be putting more money aside for our retirement years and spending less of our income.

Saving money will lower your stress levels and give you a sense of quiet satisfaction and confidence concerning the future.

Eight: Pamper and Take Care of Yourself. Take the time to give yourself good care. Avoid spending all your time caring for others . . . while neglecting yourself, which will only leave you exhausted.

When you're tired and stressed out, take a bubble bath, go fishing or take the dog for a walk in the park. Enjoy hobbies, watch movies, relax while listening to music.

Just don't keep pushing yourself. Don't try to be perfect and avoid trying to save everyone.

Nine: Drive Safely. The biggest step you can take toward making your time on the highways and byways safer is to slow down! Speed kills. Research shows that speed causes accidents.

Why not take a little extra time to get there? You won't feel so harried, either. If you have to be a few minutes late for a meeting, fine. It won't be the end of the world.

Be a courteous, thoughtful and safe driver . . . you'll live longer and be happier!

And . . . don't participate in road rage. It doesn't pay.

Ten: Develop a Close Relationship with Nature. Nature heals and restores. It helps us develop a certain peace of mind that is hard to find elsewhere.

Those who spend time in beautiful natural settings report that they feel more relaxed and at peace. We feel connected to a sacred sense of being when living in close proximity to natural areas, forests and waterways. There is great inspiration to be found in the mountains and valleys, the parks and wild, unspoiled nature reserves.

Need help coming up with a creative idea or solving a problem? Go and ask mother nature for help. She can bring you closer to that which is real in life, and contribute to your health in many ways.

By following these ten guidelines you will improve your health and well being, as well as increase the likelihood of living longer and enjoying a more productive life.




Richard Hamon is a dynamic coach and therapist with 30 years of professional experience. Richard helps people to solve their relationship problems, enjoy truly extraordinary marriages and find exceptional success in all areas of their lives.

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2012年1月30日 星期一

PMS - Change Your Mind, Change Your Symptoms


"Your body and your mind are forever connected. Your body is responding to your thoughts continually -- in fact, to nothing else. Your body is absolutely a pure reflection of the way you think. There is nothing else that is affecting your body other than your thoughts." Abraham-Hicks

Do you acknowledge that your thoughts affect your body?

This is, actually, a liberating thought! For it means that your body's well being is in Your hands! (or in your mind's hands:-)

Reflect on the current well being (or lack thereof) of your womb, your reproductive system, your menstrual cycle...

If any (or all) of these are in less than a balanced state, it may be scary, even enraging, to think that your thoughts affected this state. Did you want to have PMS? Mood Swings? Abdominal Pain? Cysts? Ovarian cancer? Of course not!

The fact that you may suffer anywhere from mild to sever symptoms doesn't mean you wanted to... It only means that you may be holding negative thoughts about your Female organs, and such thoughts express themselves in symptoms.

For instance:

The word "Yoni" (which is Hindu for Vagina) translates as "Sacred Space." Did you grow up knowing you have a sacred space between your legs?

In Hebrew the word for womb comes from the word 'Compassion'...

If your womb could speak, what would it say?

My womb would say: 'Passion and compassion are mingled in me, within your depth... I am your other heart.'

Within a body-mind system that sees your vulva as a sacred space, your womb as your other heart, and your menstruation as the flow of life, would there be any chance for severe symptoms to develop? I believe not...

On the other hand, an adolescent girl's body-mind system, who is warned by parents and society to avoid pregnancy, who sees vulva as the root of trouble and menstruation as nuisance, is by definition inclined to express such beliefs as symptoms. If for no other reason than to move these thought-forms out of mind...

This is Not a conscious process, neither is it an instant one. Yet a continual diet of negative messages will eventually emerge as symptoms. Our body-mind system, like any living organism, takes in, digests, and eliminates.

When we are fed by societal taboos and negativity (regarding menstruation and being female) we can't digest these thought-forms. We can't sustain them as nourishment, since they are not!

Like pimples erupting on our skin in order to get rid of unwanted substance or excess, so do symptoms erupt around our menstruation and reproductive organs in an attempt to expel unwanted thoughts and beliefs.

This is our body drawing our attention to the lack of balance we carry regarding our womanhood, our wombs, our vulva, or our menstruation.

So how do we reverse this?

Consciousness is always the first step. Take a moment and reflect on your inner narrative about menstruation.

What messages did you receive from your Mother? Grandmother? Girlfriends? The Media?

How many of these messages carry a negative tone to them?

If those messages could manifest as symptoms, what symptoms would they be?

Are these symptoms close to the ones you experience, monthly, around you menstruation?

If so, Bingo! You uncovered the underlying roots of your symptoms... What a relief to know these are the results of your own thought pattern. The conscious journey of changing it -- will change not only your mind, but your body, too!




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Plant Spirit Shamanism: Pablo Amaringo - The Vision Of The Plants


The great visionary artist, Pablo Amaringo, was born in 1943 in Puerto Libertad, in the Peruvian Amazon. He was 10 years old when he first took ayahuasca - a visionary brew used in shamanism - to help him overcome a severe heart disease. The magical cure of this ailment via the plants themselves led Pablo toward the life of a shaman, which he pursued successfully for many years, healing himself and others from the age of ten.

In 1977, he gave up his healing work to become a full-time painter and to set up his Usko-Ayar school. Pablo is now widely regarded as one of the world's greatest visionary artists. His book, Ayahuasca Visions: The Religious Iconography of a Peruvian Shaman, co-authored with Luis Eduardo Luna, was published in 1993 by North Atlantic Books.

In 2006, Pablo wrote the foreword to my book, Plant Spirit Shamanism. After a lifetime spent working with plants and with plant spirit shamanism, what do plants mean to Pablo? This article is from the foreword.

I owe my life to plants and they have informed everything I have done.

From very young I liked to work with plants and I realised that they gave me daily sustenance, not just as foods, but in my soul. I loved and admired them greatly.

But in my adolescence they became even more important to me. I was very unwell in my heart but I healed myself with the sacred plant, ayahuasca, after many years of suffering - something which medicines from the pharmacy were unable to do.

After years of healing myself in this way, I became a shaman when I saw a curandera [a curandera is the Amazonian term for a female shaman] heal my younger sister, also by using ayahuasca. My sister had been in agony with hepatitis, but with this single healing from the plants, she was cured in just two hours. That was why I started learning the science of vegetalismo [a vegetalismo is a shamanic healer who works primarily with plants].

Later I began dieting and taking la purga [another name for ayahuasca] and she taught me how to use plants for healing and to understand their application through visions. That's how I came to be a shaman, ordained by the spirits.

My visions helped me understand the value of human beings, animals, the plants themselves, and many other things. The plants taught me the function they play in life, and the holistic meaning of all life. We all should pay special attention and deference to Mother Nature. She deserves our love. And we should also show a healthy respect for her power!

Plants mean many things to me: they give life to all beings on Earth since they produce oxygen, which we need to be active; they conform the enormous greenhouse which gives board and lodging to diverse but interrelated guests; they are teachers and show us the holistic importance of conserving life in its due form and necessary conditions.

More than this, though, plants - the great living book of nature - have shown me how to study life as an artist and shaman. They help us to know the art of healing and to discover our own creativity, because the beauty of nature moves people to show reverence, fascination, and respect for the extent to which the forests give our souls shelter.

The consciousness of plants is a constant source of information in medicine, alimentation, and art, and an example of nature's own intelligence and creative imagination. Much of my education I owe to the intelligence of these great teachers. Thus I consider myself to be the 'representative' of plants and for this reason I assert that if they cut down the trees and burn what's left of the rainforests, it is the same as burning a whole library of books without ever having read them.

For people who are not so dedicated to the study and experience of plants, this is not so important to their lives, but even they should be conscious of the alimentary, medicinal, and scientific value of the plants they rely on for life.

My most sublime desire, though, is that every human being should begin to put as much attention as they can into the knowledge of plants because they are the greatest healers of all. And they should also put effort into the preservation and conservation of the rainforest, and care for it and the ecosystem, because damage to these not only prejudices the flora and fauna but humanity itself.

Even in the Amazon these days, plants are seen by many as only a resource for building houses and to finance large families. People who have farms and raise animals also clear the forest to produce foodstuffs. Mestizos and native Indians log the largest trees to sell to industrial sawmills for subsistence. They have never heard of the word ecology!

I, Pablo, say to everybody who lives in the Amazon and the forests of the world that they must love the plants of their land, and everything that is there!

This expression of love must be a sincere and altruistic interest in the lasting well-being of others. We are not here simply to exist, but to enjoy life together with plants, animals, and loved ones, and to delight in contemplation of the beauty of nature. A shaman has in his mind and heart the attitude of conserving nature because he knows that life is for enjoying the company of this world's countless delights.

Any painting, or book, or piece of art that spreads this message is to be respected and every reader who picks up a book on this subject is to be honoured.

I invite you to read on and to learn from the greatest teachers of all - the plants, our sacred brothers.

Plant Spirit Shamanism: Traditional Techniques for Healing the Soul, by Ross Heaven, is published by Destiny Books, ISBN 1594771189.




Ross Heaven is a therapist, workshop leader, and the author of several books on shamanism and healing, including Darkness Visible, the best-selling Plant Spirit Shamanism, and Love?s Simple Truths. His website is http://www.thefourgates.com where you can also read how to join his sacred journeys to the shamans and healers of the Amazon.





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2012年1月29日 星期日

Lessons for Life: YOUR BODY


Lesson Purpose:

Your body is a precious gift that should be properly nourished, cleansed, and kept free from harmful substances. By preserving the sanctity of your body, you keep it as a holy temple for your spirit.

The Lesson

"And the LORD God formed man [of] the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul." Bible, Genesis 2:7

"If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are." Bible, 1Cor 3:17

"If anything is sacred the human body is sacred." Walt Whitman, I Sing the Body Electric.

"For the body at best

Is a bundle of aches,

Longing for rest;

It cries when it wakes." Edna St. Vincent Millay, Moriturus

Robert Lewis Stevenson is an example of a person living with his body. I realize that not everyone has a healthy body and that they have to compromise to meet their life's objectives. Robert Lewis Stevenson died in the last decade of the nineteenth century at age forty-four.

One of the greatest writers of all time, he said that there was never a day in his life that he was not ill and that he felt strong enough to get out of bed. But he said that if he didn't get up, nothing would be accomplished that day. So he got up and wrote the wonderful literature for young and old that will be enjoyed as long as man can pull a chair up to a lamp and read.

We don't have to go back that far, do we? We have a young mother in our town who is horribly crippled and raising her children on her own. She is a beautiful creature with long black hair that drops down to her waste. I sometimes see her down by the town lake. Crutches in both hands and braces on her legs, she struggles to walk around the lake. I go up to her and ask her is she is okay. Can I take her back to her car? She gives me her beautiful smile and says, "I'm going to try and make it."

Her picture was in the paper the other day. Habitat for Humanity is building her a house. She is so happy and what did she say? "I'm going to work on that house too." And she will. Why? Because she has too, to achieve what she wants to get out life. (Note: I worked on her home and three others while living in Arizona. She lives in it today with her two children, a boy and a girl.)

Most of us have reasonably healthy bodies. We should be grateful to God for that. If people with terrible ailments press on in their lives despite the suffering, we should strive to use our bodies to help others. And that's what we do, isn't it? We go to work. We go shopping for groceries. We pack the kids in the car and take them off to school and sports activities. We are on the run all the time! And that is why we have to stop and think and ask ourselves, "Am I taking care of the body that God gave me? Do I give my body enough rest? Do I give my body enough exercise?

Do I feed my body the right foods? Am I putting dangerous chemicals and drugs into my body?

When did I last have the doctor give me a checkup?"

We are what we eat, they say. And that's what we like to do most, isn't it? EAT! There are two problems here related to Quality and Quantity. You can eat all the carrots, lettuce, watermelon, and other such vegetables and fruits that you want without ill effects. Why? There are few calories, but lots of vitamins and minerals that you need.

You can't eat all the meat, ice cream, cake, hamburgers, hot dogs, cheese, and such, without getting too much fat and too many calories.

Moderation is the key, isn't it? Sure it is! If you eat lots of fruits and vegetables and much less meat, ice cream, cake, hamburgers, French fries, fried onion rings, etc., you will have more energy and vigor.

Many folks are overweight which leads to heart decease, diabetes and other ailments. To lose weight, I have to write down my daily intake of food item by item on a sheet of paper so that I don't over do it. By doing that, I automatically say: "Hey! I'm eating too darn much." When I first started doing this, I would count the calories and stopped when I reached my limit. I found this not necessary. Just jotting down the items slows me down.

We need exercise too. They say that we old folks need at least three thirty-minute exercise periods every week and that hefting a few weights can keep our muscles strong. I walk around the track at our high school pumping five pound weights.

Younger people get plenty of exercise, at least most of them, but they still need to watch what they eat.

Tired about me talking about Korea? Well, this isn't one of my war stories. It's a fact that the doctors working in aid stations and field hospitals in Korea, many who had served in WW II,

found that the arteries of the Korean GI's were heavily laden with plaque. Much more than what the doctors saw in WW II. The reason was that those that went into W.W.II lived during the "kettle of beans" era of America called the Great Depression.

The diet was not HIGH FAT.

We ate a lot of vegetables. Our mother's canned fruits and tomatoes. I remember carrying jars of fruit and vegetables down our basement steps until my arms dropped off.

Then came the hamburger era.

When the war brought money into the land of the poor, we went on a richer diet. We loved ice cream and hamburgers and hot dogs and French fries. When I was in high school and, even later after the Korean War, at the university, a good lunch was hamburgers with fries. I paid for it.

Years in industry, after I left teaching engineering at Iowa State University, required lots

of travel and lots of meals away from home. I traveled to England, Germany, France,

Italy, Belgium, Holland, Norway, Denmark, Sweden, Mexico, Japan, Korea, and on one trip, I flew around the world, crossing the Great Soviet Union after flying over Finland, and then dropping down into Japan.

We ate and ate and ate!

Wherever we went, we ate like hogs.

After I retired and was editor of an industrial magazine, I flew to Mexico, Ecuador and Columbia. In Columbia, I was escorted by guards with machine guns. But I didn't eat fatty foods.

The reason was that I had bypass surgery and no longer was allowed to eat artery-blocking goodies. My first surgery was in 1992. In the spring of 2005, one of the grafts was replaced and I was supplied with the aortic valve of a hog (which seems appropriate).

So, what should we eat?

The "Nutrition Action Healthletter," published by the nonprofit Center for Science in the Public Interest, 1875 Connecticut Avenue, N.W., Washington, D.C. 20009 says that the following are good things to eat: oranges, whole-grain bread, cantaloupe, broccoli, sweet potatoes, watermelon, beans, salmon or other fatty fish, all-bran or 100% bran cereals, spinach, and kale.

Salmon and other fatty fishes reduce the chance of a sudden-death heart attack. All-bran and 100% bran reduce the risk of cancer and heart disease.

When you shop for groceries, read the labels. Quaker 100% Natural Oats & Honey Granola sure sounds healthy to me. Not so says the Center. Too much sugar and fat. Look for a low-fat variety from Mister Quaker if you want granola. Many plastic-bag items like chips are loaded with fat and salt. Breakfast sandwiches are packed with fat. Pizza is loaded with fat. Buy a low-fat brand or eat in moderation. Donuts and such are loaded with sugar and fat. Look for fat-free varieties. Noodles and such by themselves are not high in fat, but when you fry them they are. Canned soups can be loaded with salt. Read the labels.

Breakfast eating out: Well, Denny's Slim Slam is much better for you than the Grand Slam.

What about meat? My wife lives without it, and she doesn't feed me much. Some meat, or equivalent, is essential to good health, but purchase lean cuts and eat in moderation. Use it as a garnish more than the main part of the meal. I make spaghetti using chicken as the meat instead of meat balls. You can eat turkey burgers rather than hamburgers.

What about pork? When I was a boy, I use to work at a hog farm owned by our church. Stink! Wow! The pigs were as big as cars. When I drove through Iowa in 1956, the pigs were still huge. When I went back to teach at Iowa State University in 1966, the pigs had shrunk. They got smaller still by the time I left in 1974. All this was accomplished through breeding and diet. The pigs were slimming down. Lean pork can have a lot less fat than some beef cuts. Read the labels at the supermarket.

Everyday eat: cereal, fruit, vegetables, little or no meat, and fish once or twice a week.

My wife doesn't cook fish and the trout I catch don't have much omega-3 fatty acid. I take the pills. Take a multipurpose vitamin and consider taking extra vitamin C, especially during the cold season.

Physical Examinations

Middle-aged men should have an annual physical. Men are subject to prostate problems. The problem is enlargement with the distinct possibility of cancer. (My friend died a few weeks ago after an eight-year fight with prostate cancer. A sad lose.)

Women are subject to breast and ovarian cancer and need checkups before middle age.

Any person having a family history of heart disease, diabetes, cancer, or other ailment, should notify their doctor of this fact.

Remember to Exercise

Walking is good. When you are young, you can be as vigorous in exercise as you want. (There

may be exceptions.) When you are old, walking is the best exercise, or perhaps swimming. My wife swims three times a week. On her 70th birthday, she swam 70 laps at the Olympic pool.

Golf is good if you walk the course pushing your bag by hand cart or carrying it. Driving around the course in a motorized cart is not quite as healthy, but you can still get a lot of exercise if you are a bad golfer and spend lots of time in the rough. England is good for golf. They usually don't have motorized carts and the rough is really rough. I do love playing golf in England with the brassy weather and the foxes scampering out of the brush and the kids running out on the course stealing your balls, and all such fun.

Keep your body clean and lean if possible. If not, keep it fat and clean. But obesity is a major health risk for heart attack and cancer.

Make sure you get enough sleep and resttoo, and make sure you take time out for recreation to alleviate the stresses of out times.

For The Little Children

Mr. Brown set on the front porch watching the cars go by.

Freddy said, "I've never see Mr. Brown out of that chair."

Peter replied, "That's because Mr. Brown never gets out of that chair. He brings it out in the morning and sits there until after dark."

"Yes," Freddy said, "He's in that chair even in the winter and late at night. The only difference is that he goes inside the house when it's too cold outside."

Peter nodded his head. "Yes, all he needs is that chair and that radio blasting away."

One day, two of Mr. Brown's older sons came to the front of the house with an

ax. Freddy said, "What are they up to now? I've never seen the Brown boys work. They just horse around all day."

Peter said, "I think they are going to cut down that tree."

Freddy replied, "What makes you think they can use an ax. They'll probably cut off a foot."

The Brown boys started swinging the ax at the tree. They chipped the tree here and there but they couldn't seem to get the hang of it.

"I can't believe it!" said Peter.

"You can't believe what?" asked Freddy.

"Mr. Brown is getting out of that rocking chair!"

"I'll be!" said Peter.

"Give me that ax!" said Mr. Brown. "You boys don't know how to swing an ax." He took the ax and started swinging like Paul Bunyan. He knew how to use an ax and the chips were flying.

Freddy said, "Look how red his face is getting."

"More like blue," said Peter.

Then poor Mr. Brown fell to the ground. The Brown boys called their mother and she came running out of the house. She send one of the boys to use the Neighbor's telephone to call an ambulance. But it was too late. Poor Mr. Brown was dead by the time the ambulance arrived. He had a massive heart attack. Mrs. Brown was crying.

Peter and Freddy felt sad. They told the Brown boys they were sorry.

Later, Freddy told his father what happened. His father said, "It's too bad. He wasn't in good enough health to cut down a tree. You have to keep fit to do that kind of work. You have to know your own limitations."

Freddy said, "I'll try to remember that, Father. When I'm old, I will walk a lot like Grandfather does. I'll try to keep healthy and strong."

His father smiled at him and said, "You are thinking good, Son."

Yes, this is a true story. The names were changed.

Copyright©2001-2005 by Taylor Jones, John T. Jones, Ph.D.




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Psychic Self-Defense - How To Know And Heal Your Aura


Our aura is an energy field or cocoon around our bodies that reflects our overall physical, mental, and spiritual state. Few people can see the aura, though many psychics claim to do just that. Though most of us don't see the aura, we can feel it.

Auras take on many different colors and shapes. An aura is seldom composed of just one color, though it does happen from time to time. Aura colors are like the rainbow - they take on all hues and tints, but they generally range from light silver-to-white in very positive and healthy people to very dark black in truly evil people. We don't control the colors in our aura, but we do control their internal sources through our physical health, mental state, emotional balance, and spiritual growth.

When our aura is weak and shadowy, we are either sick, emotionally upset, psychologically stressed or conflicted, or spiritually poor. When our aura is strong and bright, we are healthy, happy, and spiritually rich. The following guidelines may help you strengthen and maintain a strong positive aura.

* Exercise. A healthy body is one way to strengthen your aura. Keeping physically fit and maintaining a healthy pulse and heart rate keeps you and your aura strong. Strong, healthy blood flow throughout the body can help heal wounds and illnesses and improve your aura.

* Get some fresh air and sunshine. Clean, healthy natural forces are a wonderful fuel for healthy psychological and emotional balance. Getting outdoors, breathing deeply, and feeling the sun on your skin can refresh and re-energize our auras, too.

* Improve your diet. Eating a healthy balanced diet is another way to strengthen you aura. Eaten in moderation, a good balance of the important food groups helps maintain strength and bone structure. But eat only enough to quiet hunger and fuel the body. Overeating can create toxins that weaken, rather than, strengthen a healthy aura.

* Meditate. Meditation is a powerful tool for achieving mental and emotional balance, and it helps us make a stronger connection with our spiritual center. By meditating, we reduce stress and focus our minds and spirits on our most important goals. Meditation cleans and clears both the person and the aura. If you are a religious person, supplement meditation with healing prayer.

* Listen to uplifting music. Music has long been known to have a positive health effect. It reduces stress and frees the mind from the constraints of language. Listening to instrumental music can free your mind and spirit and bring them into a better, more balanced state, thereby strengthening your aura.

* Read sacred texts. Three religious documents contain knowledge and wisdom for the ages that can help you learn who you are and what you want to be. Read one or all of these sacred texts: the Bible, the Qur'an, or the Bagavhad Gita. Your spiritual growth will make your aura stronger and your inner life more rich and rewarding.

* Try aromatherapy. Pleasant fragrances area another way to clear your mind and bring you back to a healthy state, including improving your aura.

* Wear or keep an amulet. Keep a double-terminated quartz near you or on your person to strengthen you aura. It can help activate your consciousness and prevent negative energies from draining your aura of its positive energy.

These remedies will not only strengthen your aura. They will help you maintain a healthy body, a well-balanced mind, a strong happy heart, and a rich spirit. The aura, after all, reflects your condition. The suggestions are not a cure. They're a way to help you channel your inner strengths and build a better outlook on life and other people. They are tools that you must choose and apply to help you reach your personal goals.




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The Absolute Best Chocolate In The World Pure Belgian Chocolate


Chocolate is known the world over as one of the most loved and valued foods. In fact when Columbus first discovered chocolate in the New Americas it was being used by the Aztec people as a sacred religious drink. While is sacred status has changed to a more profane level in more recent history there are still many who hold their love for chocolate very closely. The Aztec people loved their chocolate so much that they were often willing to trade it for gold and it was even part of the monetary system.

Even today, chocolates are often considered as the absolute best candy in the world. In scientific forms, chocolates have been found to be a natural high blood pressure medicine. Research has found that it decreases the risk of high blood pressure and it also keeps your heart healthy by keeping the normal flow of blood going.

Some people even claim that chocolates are a great antidepressant food. People have claimed that after a bite of chocolate, depressed people instantly smiled. This is why chocolate is also regarded as the "happy food". Indeed, chocolates are very irresistible to eat. Diet fanatics even confessed that they cheated on their strict diet by eating chocolates during the duration of their dieting. They even said that chocolates were their number one enemy and that they always lost. They said that they would sneak to the kitchen in the middle of the night just to have a bite of chocolate.

This is why chocolates were also nicknamed as the guilty pleasure food.

First of all, after its discovery and introduction to civilization, people quickly became addicted to chocolate. Many aristocrats and royalties all over the world cherish chocolates and some monarchy has been found that they kept stashes of chocolates in palaces. You also need to consider that chocolates were held so valuable that many countries have perfected the recipe and kept it a secret for a very long time.

One country that perfected the craft in chocolate manufacturing is Belgium. If you are a chocolate lover, there is a great chance that you have eaten Belgian chocolate before. If Godiva and Callebaut sound familiar, then you know your Belgian chocolates. If you have tasted pure Belgian chocolates before, you know how delicious it can be and you know that you can never get enough of Belgian chocolates.

There are pure Belgian chocolates available in the market today. You have to consider that these chocolates are made of premium quality cocoa beans from the south. Belgians have been making chocolates for centuries and because of this experience and expertise, they have perfected the recipe for having the best tasting chocolates in the world.

You can order pure Belgian chocolates. Although it may be priced expensively, you have to consider that once you have tasted one, you will surely ask for more and say that it's worth every penny. Some people who have tasted pure Belgian chocolates said that they felt like floating after tasting the chocolate. You have to consider that this is because of the chemical property that chocolates have. It will make you feel euphoric and as mentioned before, it is described as the "happy food". Combined with the Belgian secret recipe for manufacturing chocolates, you can definitely be sure that you will taste a one-of-a-kind chocolate that will make you ask for more.

Whether you want to make chocolate delicacies, or you simply want to eat pure chocolate, pure Belgian chocolate should be your choice. It will make any chocolate delicacies taste far greater than ever b




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2012年1月28日 星期六

Ayahuasca Retreats In The Amazon Rainforest - An Encounter With An Amazonian Shaman


After being virtually ignored by Western civilization for centuries, there has been a huge surge of interest in Ayahuasca recently. There is a growing belief that it is a kind of 'medicine for our times', giving hope to people with 'incurable' diseases like cancer and HIV, drug addictions and inspiring answers to the big ecological problems of modern civilization.

Ayahuasca is not a drug, it is regarded as a gateway to another reality, a reality which co-exists with our physical world. From this reality an experience of the totality of inter-connectedness can be personally experienced. Ayahuasca is also known as La Purga (The Purge) due to it's powerful physical 'clearing' effect, but it is more than just physical clearing it is also an energetic clearing of personal history as well. It is never to be taken lightly and only under the supervision of a shaman who is well versed in the ways of the plant.

Spirituality is at the centre of the Ayahuasca experience. Purification and cleansing of body, mind, and spirit in a shamanic ceremony can be the beginning of a process of profound personal and spiritual discovery. This process can continue indefinitely even if one never drinks Ayahuasca again. One thing is sure, and that is that every person gets a unique experience. We believe that by seriously looking at the way Ayahuasca is used we can improve our life experience and benefit more from this medicine.

Ayahuasca is the jungle medicine of the upper Amazon. It is made from the ayahuasca vine ( Banisteriopsis Caapi) and the leaf of the Chacruna plant (Psychotria Viridis). The two make a potent medicine which opens the doors to experiencing the energetic world which underlies the world of everyday. The vine is an inhibitor which contains harmala and harmaline among other alkaloids, and the leaf contains vision inducing alkaloids. As with all natural medicines, it is a mixture of many alkaloids that makes their unique properties. For example, Peyote, the cactus used by the North Native Americans, is said to contain 32 active alkaloids, so when one of those alkaloids, mescaline (LSD) is synthesised in a laboratory, contrary to popular opinion, the result is not at all the same.

Ayahuasca is a name derived from two Quechua words: aya means spirit, ancestor, deceased person, and huasca means vine or rope, hence it is known as vine of the dead or vine of the soul. It is also known by many other local names including yaje, caapi, natema, pinde, daime, mihi, & dapa. It plays a central role in the spiritual, religious and cultural traditions of the Indigenous and Mestizo (mixed blood) poeples of the upper Amazon, Orinoco plains and the Pacific coast of Colombia and Equador.

The plants are collected from the rainforest in a sacred way and it is said that a shaman can find plentiful sources of the vine by listening for the 'drumbeat' that emanates from them. The mixture is prepared by cutting the vines to cookable lengths, scraping and cleaning them, pounding them into a pulp, and then adding the chacruna leaves. The mixture is then boiled about twelve hours until it is a thick brown liquid.

To understand ayahuasca in the local context, one cannot avoid taking a look at the ecological environment, such as the rainforest, cultural environment and indigenous cultures. This has structured the cultural content of ayahuasca.

One of the more romantic stories takes place amongst the Shipibo people who live up the river in the heart of the jungle in the Peruvian Amazon.

This tale is centered around women, more so than men, as they look after the children and their health, whilst the men are out hunting and fishing. Men are more interested in plants that aid their inner spirits when hunting , whilst women are more interested in plants that will allow their children to grow.

There was one particular woman who was very interested in plants, who liked to pick the leaves of different plants. She would then crush the leaves into a pot and soak them in water over night. She would then take a bath every morning before sunrise (the way to find out about various plants and their effects is to bathe in them). She bathed in them every morning until she had a dream. In her dream a woman came and said, "why are you bathing every day?" She answered "I am doing this as I want you to teach me." The other woman said "You must seek out my uncle, his name is Kamarampi. I will show you where to find him". The woman led the other woman to her uncle. The uncle showed her how to mix the leaves of the chacruna, which was a bush she had taken leaves from to bathe in. He showed her how to prepare the brew of Ayahuasca, he told her to go and tell the people the knowledge of how to use the brew.

One of the many mysteries surrounding Ayahuasca is how the vine became to be used with the Chacruna leaves as although they both come from the same soil but always grow apart otherwise the ayahuasca winds around the Chacruna and kills it. No one knows this but we get a clue from how the shamans interact with the plant. Javier Arevalo a shaman from the Peruvian Amazon told us " that his grandfather and uncles used to sit around after taking ayahuasca and he said that ayahuasca was originally taken alone and in the visions they saw that chacruna was missing. Ayahuasca would say I am the doctor that gives the vision. His grandfather responded, how can we find this plant? The response in the vision was, you can find it by turning two corners. So they went around two corners and found a bush which attracted them which was chacruna i.e the ayahuasca showed them.

This is a fundamental principle, in the visions it is the spirit doctor of ayahuasca which tells them what is wrong with their patient, what medicine they need, or who has caused the illness or malaise.

Ayahuasca and the spirit of plants.

In the West there are lots of stories like 'Jack and the Beanstalk' reminding us that plants have spirit power, Alice in Wonderland explored this world too. There is a large body of knowledge of power plants even if the form has been adapted to fairy tales and 'domesticated', not to under rate the richness of Grimms' tales.

All the plants used in medicine today were known by our ancestors. McKenna suggested that the evolution from primates to humans was achieved when we left the tropical rain forest to inhabit the savannah regions. We learned to stand on two legs and consumed psychotropic mushrooms. Interaction of plant and animal, change of diet meant a change of consciousness. Goats have a habit of eating all kinds of herbs which is why in the Andes, you are not supposed to eat goat's milk or meat if you are having mental problems. In Lapland the reindeer eat the hallucinogenic mushrooms and the shamans drink their urine which has been "processed".

When a person drinks Ayahuasca, especially with a trusted shaman, there is a chance to learn and trust the plant. You discover that it works in its own way. It is a great moment getting to this point. Then there is the question of whether the plant trusts us, because it can be abused and used for getting the wrong kind of personal power. Without intention, vision, preparation, and a shaman, it is a drug not a healing medicine.

In the Amazonian world Ayahuasca, as indeed all plants, has a spirit which is angelic but also has human emotions projected like jealousy, vengefulness, wroth etc. When it is being prepared, the shaman has to watch over it at all the time to prevent bad spirits being introduced. The fire needs tending regularly throughout the 10 hours concoction and the shaman should diet during this time. It is said that the spirit of Ayahuasca is very jealous and that if the rules of its preparation are not respected it is resentful. We wonder if this is a cultural thing or would it happen to us Westerners as well. During our interviews we constantly found that the general rules about the working of Ayahuasca did not always match up with our own experiences. For example the addition of toe (bella dona) and tobacco to induce vomiting is supposed to make you have a clear head the next morning but we found sometimes it was the other way round. We found it hard to pin down which were the decisive factors.

Sexual abstinence is another thing which is emphasised yet this seems to be a very individual thing. It would seem though, on reflection, that the purpose and intentions of the shaman are among the more important factors, that he follows the diet during preparation and for the session. At all times he is placing his energy where the Ayahuasca is. This also means that not anyone can be present to watch the brewing process, their quality as people as well as whether they had dieted, practised abstinence or had a period, all have an influence. When we watched the shaman Javier Arevalo preparing, his wife would do the washing and shredding of the Ayahuasca. After it had boiled for a while, Javier lit a large mapacho (hand rolled jungle tobacco) and blew smoke over the top of the concoction. The two of us were invited to do this as well. When this is done you can feel a blast from the boiling Ayahuasca in your face. Later in the session, the shaman or the person who has blown the smoke, feels the return of this blast and passes it on to his clients.

It is also important that none of the clients watch the process of preparation. In particular, a woman passing by who was having her period, could leave a bad energy with the medicine. This is a vexed question, the origins of which seem to be traceable to Christian, Amazonian and countless other traditions.

Anthropologists call it taboo for want of a rational explanation, but as with all things of the primordial world, there are reasons inherited from ancestral times, which may have been forgotten. At the dawn of time, realities were very different from what they are today. Mythology may shed some light on the matter, but one thing is sure we don't really know! However it's reasonable to make the assumption that our ancestors were not frivolous.

We worked extensively with Javier Arevalo and we had many discussions on the role of the Amazonian shaman and the use of ayahuasca. Javier comes from Nuevo Progreso, a community of 50 families on the Rio Napo, Department of Loreto, Peru. Several generations of his family before him have been shamans and already at the age of 17, he knew this would be his future. However it was not until he was 20 when his father died from a 'virote' (a poisoned dart in the spiritual world) sent by a jealous brujo, (sorcerer) that he felt compelled to follow the arduous five-year apprenticeship to be a shaman.

Javier, what is the role of a shaman?

He learns everything about the rain forest and uses that knowledge to heal his people since they do not have money for Western style doctors. He uses Ayahuasca to discover in his visions, which plants will be effective for which illnesses.

How do you perceive this?

The sprits or plant doctors tell us. As they are pure, they are made happy when we are too, so we must diet in order to attract them. That means we should not eat salt, sugar or alcohol, and abstain from sex. The spirits come and say, for example they will cure in two months if the patient takes a particular plant. Then the shaman goes out to look for the plant.

It is said that every environments has the necessary plants to heal the people?

Yes, every plant has a spirit, the shaman goes into the forest as part of his apprenticeship and spends two years taking plants and roots. He takes Ayahuasca too and the spirit tells him what it cures. Then the shaman tries another plant, each time remembering which ailment is cured by what.

Does each shaman have to find it all out for himself or is there a body of knowledge handed down?

The maestro goes with the apprentice into the wilderness and gives him the different plants and it is like a test or trial to overcome. The maestro is usually a member of family. In my case both my grandfather and my uncle were maestros. You go off deep into the forest with your maestro and make a very simple shelter or 'tambo'. A shaman must not live in a big house, its just for sleeping and dieting.

How long do you have to diet the plant?

Just one day to know its process, the next day you move onto another. This is if you do not return to the city, you can get through a lot of plants. This is different from dieting a plant for a month say.

So does every condition or illness have a particular plant to remedy it or is it a spirit energy which comes through the plant which can cure many things?

One plant may cure lots of ailments. A particular plant has a spirit which can either heal or kill. As for example with another shaman (who we worked with earlier) , who had not dieted Ayahuasca correctly and poom! it caused fever and people caught colds.

So why would a plant kill or cure?

Because an hechicero (sorcerer) also learns from the plants. He may for example learn from dieting a plant which has spines or phlegm which could be good for certain things. But if he is bad no one can stop him and in the night 'ffoooo' he uses it for harm or to kill. These are the brujos who come back from the forest with eyes red like the huayruro (red beans with black spots). He is a bad shaman and we have to cure the people they harm.

Who would want to do such things?

There are some people who have a squabble with someone, and then they go off to see a brujo and say "this Senora talks too much and has insulted me, kill her and I'll pay you". They pay them and they do harm.

But the shaman who made us ill did not do it intentionally.

No, of ignorance. It was a shaman from the city not from the forest. He went away and left us to mop up the ill effects. He may have had a good teacher but does not diet, he is very fat! (People in the jungle are rarely fat.)

In addition he probably eats the day of the session and that is why he threw up himself!

How does this affect Westerners?

It doesn't matter, they will probably throw up and not have any vision because when he blows he has condiments on his breath. However, it matters much less if the clients have eaten or not stuck rigorously to the diet. The important thing is that the shaman diets.

Note: There is much discrepancy between shamans concerning the question of vomiting. Some say it is necessary for the body to rid itself of what ever is necessary and that if they are not sick they might get ill. (Ayahusaca is often referred to as La Purga.) Others say if you vomit you will not have such good vision and on no account should a shaman vomit.

Why and how did you become a shaman?

I never thought of being a shaman. I took Ayahuasca from 14 years old just to clean my stomach. Later my father said I heard you chanting, you are going to be a shaman. I don't want to I said. Later when I was 20 my father died from sorcery so then I wanted to learn in order to take vengeance. During my apprenticeship I had a change of heart and understood that God knew best in such situations.

Why did the brujo want to kill your father?

Because he was a curandero who had cured someone who had been harmed by the brujo. It happens because we curanderos undo the work of the brujos and they get angry with us. This is the famous spiritual battle between the brujos. When you cure you send the bad magic back to where it comes from and the brujos get their own dirty medicine back. This is why there is a fight between the good and the bad.

Howard tells story of his battle with one of Javier's assistants 3 weeks earlier.

(Javier laughs a lot and explains.) Well because he was not really a shaman, he works as a guide, he drinks liquor. Then when he takes Ayahuasca and chants icaros he is not pure and his doctors don't take any notice of him. The spirits start bothering (molesting) the people participating in the session. That is what happened to Howard. When I take Ayahuasca I talk to the doctors who give visions, I ask them to cure, I have dominion over them because I diet. If I don't, they make you crazy or annoy you.

So if the shaman cannot control himself, then the spirits get out of hand?

If you can't dominate the spirits of the jungle you are nobody, instead of curing they run away or take no notice of you.

So the control of the spirits is fundamental?

Spirits are like angels. God withstood 40 days of hunger and temptation by the devil and was resurrected. That's what we have to do too.

This is Christianity, but your (Javier's) people were practicing long before the missionaries came. Is it possible to separate the Christian from the wisdom of the jungle?

No, no, they work together. But it has nothing to do with going to a church. You learn all this in the wilderness. The spirits there are the angels of each plant to which you add your will to heal the client. This is the will of Christ.

Where does the power of the shaman end and the spirits begin?

The shaman receives the power from the jungle, he doesn't have any power of his own that he doesn't get from the forest.

When I look at you by day I see just a normal young man, when you wear your clothes and move into the ayahuasca space you become different, a different presence, you become larger...

(Javier laughs!) The medicine is not in the body, the body can wear clothes for example, and you see that by day. But at night you don't see my body, you see my spirit which receives the medicine which transforms me through the vision. I have to be pure so as to be a receptacle of the spirit of the medicine. It is essential too for a shaman to be happy, the shaman laughs at everything, because a happy heart is what cures. He can't have a long face or fight with his wife and children.

You started off with a desire for revenge, what changed you into a shaman?

My grandfather saw that my heart was bitter and he told me that it would not get me anywhere. My heart was still hard and wanted to kill! Bit by bit through taking the very plants that I had intended to use for revenge, the spirits told me it was wrong to kill and my heart softened.




Howard G. Charing, is an accomplished international workshop leader on shamanism. He has worked some of the most respected and extraordinary shamans & healers in the Andes, the Amazon Rainforest, and the Philippines. He organises specialist retreats to the Amazon Rainforest at the dedicated centre located in the Mishana nature reserve. He is the author of the best selling book, Plant Spirit Shamanism (Destiny Books USA), and has published numerous articles about plant medicines. He was baptised into the Shipibo tribe of the Upper Amazon, and initiated into the lineage of the shamans of the Rio Napo. Howard is also an artist who's paintings have featured in major exhibitions in London and elsewhere. His artwork has also been featured on book covers.

His website: http://www.shamanism.co.uk
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Finding the Light With Cherry Garcia - Spiritual Encouragement for Women


When I ask a woman if she loves her body 99% of the women say no! There is always something they want to change.

Can you believe the battle we have inwardly when we look in the mirror? We hate the shape of our butts, cellulite on our thighs, our boobs aren't big enough. Perhaps you can relate? Or we hate the way our clothes look and judge all pictures we are in. I know I have said it all in my head, and have had every cover up and clothing size in my closet depending on how big my belly was that day...no joke!

The war with our bodies is an ongoing one, but isn't it time we found some peace???

I want to share with you some powerful insights around those emotional rants to your skinny jeans, and long tearful chats with the cookie dough in the fridge. This relationship as brutal as it feels...might be a doorway to a hidden power within your psyche.

Could your war zone actually be a pathway to inner riches?

How do you 'find yourself' through the bottom of a Ben and Jerry's carton?

One thing I know for sure is the cycle and the pain of weight loss and weight gain. I know for myself being 5'2 going through an entire two decades of my life cycling through 5 different dress sizes, this kind of cycle is a prison of the worst kind. But is it?

This hell realm tortured me for years but it also rebirthed me to become an entirely new person. Can your relationship to food start as a battle ground and become your spiritual path? Well unless you want to be stuck in the realm of obsessing 24/7 about food you have no other choice.

How can eating a dozen doughnuts become your guru?

I believe it is your greatest teacher.

So lets get started!

Turn your spoon into a candle and your plowing through the ice cream as your spiritual teacher. How do we do this?

When the urge starts to come on...take these following 10 steps to heart!

1. Feel the wave like a power force it is not bad it is not wrong; it is to be honored and acknowledge as your creative force.

2. How can you re-direct this force?

3. Don't try when you have your face in the refrigerator but do it after.

4. When you are in a binge slow down, taste your food, light a candle say a prayer feel your body.

5. Love yourself no matter what- no you're a fat pig... you say? Write down what you say about yourself and stop. Transform these thoughts into compassion. Be gentle this is a challenge this is your journey through the underworld and you will be catapulted through to a new world when you are done.

6. Write down what you think about yourself. Then re-write the words like... 'no matter what, I appreciate my body for being alive for being healthy, for digesting my foods, for being alive'.

7. When you are done eating too much, do not allow yourself to then berate your behavior. Instead make a list for how you can use your creative force? Write, read, draw, sing, create, dance, pick flowers think of anything creative.

8. Express yourself fully with everything you do! Speak, write, live, take chances, feel.

9. It is time to fully feel your feelings, feel your body, feel your stomach when you digest your food.

10. Set the intention to transform your thoughts about food, it is not torture your weight loss is not hell, it is your spiritual journey so jump on it!!!

Be proud of all you do, all you eat and wherever you are on your journey with food and body image. This is a sacred journey. A lot of women experience it, so let's enjoy, find the grace and the lessons.

You are divine!

Lets fly on this spiritual path together!




Raquel Reyna

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2012年1月27日 星期五

The Brazilian Secret to Good Digestion


The Brazilian secret to health digestion is Cascara Sagrada. When the natives of the Amazonian area wish to aid discomfort, this natural herb does the trick. It is believed to be very effective, and is sought after by people in America seeking alternatives to Western medicine.

What is Cascara Sagrada?

Cascara Sagrada, also known as Frangula purshiana,, is a tree indigenous to the Amazon Rainforest and parts of Northern America and Canada. The Spanish term for sacred bark, the bark of this tree is known in South America for its many medicinal qualities.

To utilize the full effect of these health benefits, bark is stripped from the tree and aged for about a year so that the extracts taken will be suitable for human consumption (taken too soon, the bark may be too potent and cause severe health problems).

What's so great about Cascara Sagrada?

For people in the Amazon rainforest, extract of Cascara Sagrada bark has proven to work wonders with digestive and intestinal ailments. Contained within the bark are compounds called anthraquinones which, when consumed, are transformed by intestinal bacteria to increase intestinal motility in the large intestine. This in turn encourages safer, natural removal of bodily waste and improves health to the colon. Resins, tannins, and lipids make up the bulk of the other Casacara Sagrada bark ingredients. Cascarosides have a cathartic action, inducing the large intestine to increase its muscular contraction (peristalsis), resulting in bowel movement.

Cascara Sagrada works as a natural laxative, effective fighting constipation and keeping the body regular. As a stomachic tonic, the bark is known to work as a gastric digestion and appetite aid. For cleansing purposes, Cascara Sagrada can also be used to induce vomiting when necessary.

Are there side effects to taking Cascara Sagrada?

When taken improperly, this extract may cause abdominal cramping, nausea, and diarrhea. It is strongly recommend to take extract that has been aged for more than a year, and not to take the supplement for more than a week without a period of abstinence so that your body may adjust to the cleansing effects.

People who suffer from severe ulcerative colitis, Crohn's disease, hemorrhoids, blood vessel disease, congestive heart failure, heart disease, severe anemia, or any type of severe intestinal or gastric illness should avoid Cascara Sagrada. If you are unsure about whether or not you should take this supplement, consult your doctor.

Enter Cascara Sagrada into Internet search and you are bound to find hundreds of online shops selling the extract in powder and capsule form. This wonder supplement is in very high demand in European and African markets, and has been available in milder quantities in the US for more than a century. More recently, however, alternative health shops are offering this extract in it own form.

When you shop for Cascara Sagrada on the Internet, be aware of other ingredients mixed with the supplement that may hinder the full effects of the herb. Check the labels for the purest ingredients, and above all else consult a doctor before taking any type of herbal supplement.




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8 Tips to Reduce Postpartum Belly Fat and Stress


For nine months, you were a happy mommy-to-be, the center of lots of attention and excited anticipation. After all the buildup to having the baby, the excitement of the birth, and all the subsequent visits from admiring family and friends, the stress of being totally responsible for this precious new life sets in. This is especially true if it's your first baby.

The stress, sleep deprivation and feelings of isolation can be overwhelming. Also, for the majority of new mothers, there is that postpartum belly fat to deal with. Here are some great tips to smooth your way into being a happy new parent, turning your body into a fat burning furnace and getting your pre-pregnancy body back.

1. Take a rest. Finding time to get horizontal can be a challenge for a new mom. Make it a point to take a nap yourself whenever the baby nods off. Give yourself permission to let the housework slide a little! Lie on your left side with your knees bent. This opens your spine, helping to relieve any pain there.

2. Breathe deeply. Most people don't use a lot of their available lung area. Take ten deep breaths at least three times a day. This will get at least 20% more oxygen to your brain. You'll clear toxins from your body and increase your thinking power instantly.

3. Avoid fad diets. Don't fall for the cabbage soup diets, Sacred Heart Diets, or any other quickie diets that promise instant results. They're not good for you or the baby. Eat lots of fruits, veggies, and lean protein, plus drink plenty of water. You can't go wrong, and you'll feel much better. That postpartum belly fat will soon be on the way out.

4. Make a list. You've got lots on your mind now, so it's easy to forget something. Human beings' short-term memory can remember only 7 or 8 things. Don't stress yourself by trying to force your brain to do something it isn't wired to do! Write things down for an instant stress-reduction.

5. Eat slowly. As a new mom busy with a crying baby, the temptation is to wolf down a sandwich whenever you can grab it. This is a mistake, and it can lead to digestive upset as well. Also, you may feel like you haven't really eaten - so you may be tempted to reach for sweets or greasy chips as a fill-in. Sit at the table and eat from a plate. Put down your fork between bites and chew slowly. Enjoy your food; it's much better for you than eating on-the-go.

6. Avoid caffeine and sugary drinks. Both caffeine and excess sugar affect your blood sugar levels dramatically. If you are nursing, they can also affect your baby's sugar levels, making the baby jittery or cranky. The best beverage for a new mom is plain water. Reducing empty sugar calories is the best first step to getting rid of the postpartum belly fat and the loose, poochy skin that comes with it.

7. Don't skip meals - you'll be skipping the benefits of a higher metabolism. It sounds completely wrong, but you should eat more frequently than before. Just eat smaller meals. A couple of ounces of turkey, an apple and a big glass of water make a great small meal or snack. If you eat like this five or six times a day, your metabolism and sugar levels will remain consistent, keeping you energized and ready for motherhood.

8. Slowly resume exercising. Being at home with a new infant can be isolating for the new mom. Take an adult companion, put the baby in the stroller and go out for a walk. Take it easy the first few times, especially if you've had a Cesarean. As you regain strength and your doctor gives you the green light, you'll be able to begin or resume weight training and more strenuous aerobic exercise, and start heading back to your pre-pregnancy shape.

Stress and postpartum belly fat are part of the package of new motherhood. You can beat them both with common sense and by starting with these simple steps. You know your body the best. Listen to what it tells you. You'll know when it's time for exercise. The new-mommy days fly by. Enjoy your new role and that new, precious little person!




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2012年1月26日 星期四

Create A New Passionate Relationship With Food And Life


"Food is an important part of a balanced diet." Fran Lebowitz

The Iranian movie, "The Fish Fall in Love" is a film that speaks of eating and falling in love. It is based on the premise that people fall into two categories; some that eat their food with no passion and the others who eat passionately. Only those who eat with delicious passion are successful in love.

Are you madly in love with luscious food, taking the time to fill your senses with the delicious aroma of food? When was the last time you sat down and ate with passion, without feeling guilty thinking about calories, fat, or what is healthy and unhealthy?

Imagine yourself savoring the experience of joyful eating, being truly alive during each bite. Enjoy the life affirming aromas, visual appeal, and the taste and texture of the fully satisfying food that you are bringing into your body. To give your self the luxury of fully experiencing food is one of the great joys in life.

This week, challenge yourself to one meal that you will eat passionately and with a sense of aliveness. For one chosen meal, set aside all concerns about gaining or losing weight. Let there be no counting calories, and no following diet food rules. For this meal, dare yourself to create a rewarding relationship between food, life, and love. You will not use this meal to calm your anxieties, stuff your emotions, or distract you from your worries. This meal will be an offering of your love to the food in the form of full sensory aliveness and appreciation, and a receiving of life from the food into your body.

Close your eyes for a moment and breathe in deeply. Relax. What would you choose to eat if this was your last meal on Earth? Be playful and explore the possibilities. Is your ideal meal something your mom made for you as a child? Is it a meal from your favourite restaurant? Does your meal include an appetizer, salad, main course, a favorite drink, coffee, and dessert? Or would you simply prefer a hot dog or fried chicken? What meal or combination of foods would let your taste buds soar, your body melt with pleasure, and your mind feel the exhilaration of joy? When you have identified a specific meal, open your eyes and write down your menu.

The Experience

Now that you have your meal picked out, follow through and allow yourself to create a loving, enjoyable experience for yourself. Don't just think about it, go ahead and make your fantasy real. At this point, you might notice if you hear any inner voices objecting to this:

This is stupid.

This sounds good, but I don't have the time.

What's the point?

If I enjoy the food, I won't be able to stop eating.

I get bored paying attention to the meal.

I don't want to be aware of eating, it's embarrassing.

I don't want to give up the numbing out experience of eating.

Decide to move beyond your inner objections and give yourself this experience. Discover what it might be like to bring back the joyfulness of eating. Imagine preparing this meal for a friend or lover that you had not seen in quite some time. Only instead of sharing your food with a friend of lover, you will be sharing it with yourself.

Have fun planning the details and anticipating how the meal will flow. What fine points would make your meal perfect? Would you include flowers, nice china, some background music, or a glass of exquisite wine? Can you prepare the meal yourself, or would you first need to call your mom and get the recipe?

Once you have the details of your meal, pick a date that you are willing to cook for yourself. Yes, you read that last sentence correctly. It contained the words "cook" and "for yourself." Remember, it is only one meal. And, there's no need to do this by yourself - unless of course you want to. Enlist the enthusiasm of your very best friend or the support of your partner. Explain the purpose of your meal is to develop a new relationship with food and life as you consciously enjoy the entire process of eating.

Shopping

"You don't have to cook fancy or complicated masterpieces - just good food from fresh ingredients." ~ Julia Child ~

Get a shopping list together of the items you will need. For this one meal, choose beautiful, fresh ingredients. Pick foods that are alive and full of vitality. Splurge for this meal. It's okay if you only have one bite of something and three bites of something else. No one will tell your mother that you have been wasteful. Go ahead, live on the edge. Indulge. While you are out shopping, remember the fresh flowers, candles, and maybe even a setting of special original china.

Preparing

"Enchant, stay beautiful and graceful, but do this, eat well. Bring the same consideration to the preparation of your food as you devote to your appearance. Let your dinner be a poem, like your dress." "Letters to Emily" Charles Pierre Monselet, French journalist and author. (1825-1888)

Cooking may not be an activity you have done lately. It takes a little time to prepare a meal. So plan ahead, invite your friend or partner, and approach this act with love and anticipation. Begin the process of cooking with awareness. Notice the colors of the vegetables you chose. Hear the sounds of them being chopped, and the sizzle as they sauté. Deeply inhale the aromas as they begin to fill your kitchen. Maximize your anticipation by looking at, touching, and smelling the food as you chop, cut, arrange ingredients.

The Environment

Create a memory for this meal. Choose a place to eat that is peaceful, attractive, and pleases you. Let your heart choose a special cloth or scarf for the table. Arrange beautiful, living flowers in the center of the table or sprinkle rose petals around the dinner setting. Dim the lights and light the candles. Create atmosphere by listening to calming, relaxing music such as ocean waves, babbling brooks, or nature sounds in the background. It might help to break the routine of how you eat by using chopsticks or no utensils at all. Use your best china and arrange the food on your plate as though for a guest.

Eat with Passion

This meal you will eat with passion. It will be a sensual and delightfully sacred experience. The food is a gentle lover that has come to take care of you, to soothe and nurture you. Eating will be an entire body and sensory experience, not just putting food in your mouth and swallowing. Notice the steam arising with the scent of the wonderful food you are about to eat. Inhale deeply. Smell the aromas and feel them as they move throughout your entire body. Delight in the experience. Now close your eyes and slowly take a bite. Allow the bite to stay in your mouth for a moment to fully appreciate the taste before you even begin chewing. Find yourself worthy of receiving pleasure that isn't guilt ridden or secret. Allow your own appreciation of the food to comfort your soul and regenerate your body.

Body Awareness

Before you eat, notice how it feels to be hungry. Notice your body sensations as you become filled by the food you eat. Become conscious of your whole body. Are your muscles tense anywhere? Notice how you are sitting, and what you are thinking. Are your thoughts focused on the beautiful food that you are eating, or have they wandered to dark or heavy places? There is no need to control your thoughts. Instead, simply notice when your thoughts wander to unpleasant places and then bring them back to your enjoyable eating experience. Breathe deeply. Be aware of your body's signal when it has had enough to eat. Not sure when you have had enough? Test things out for yourself. Take a good long look at the remaining food - does it look the same as when you started? Does it taste the same as when you started?

Meal Ending

When you are done eating, let yourself know that you are done. Take a deep breath and allow yourself to have this food inside of you. Say "yes" your fullness and your participation in a joyful experience. Blow out the candles to symbolically end your meal.




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Dr. Annette Colby, RD can help you take the pain out of life, turn difficult emotions into joy, release stress, end emotional eating, and move beyond depression into an extraordinary life! Annette is the author of Your Highest Potential and has the unique ability to show you how to spark an amazing relationship with your life! Visit www.LovingMiracles.com to access hundreds of content filled articles and sign up for a Fr'ee subscription to Loving Miracles! newsletter.





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Grieving The Loss Of A Loved Animal Companion


Today, perhaps more than ever before in history, our animal companions have played a more important role and assumed a greater meaning and significance in the lives of millions of Americans. It is estimated that there are approximately 68 million dogs and 73 million cats living in U.S, households. and that the pet industry generates nearly $36 billion dollars in revenues per year. As our lives become increasingly stressful and challenging - as our world becomes increasingly complex, perilous, impersonal and technologically oriented, our pets have become more valued, respected and appreciated. Our pets have and continue to become beloved members of our families who provide us with unconditional love, loyalty and acceptance.

Pets are also often our very best and dearest friends, companions and confidants. In a world full of tumult, conflict and fear, their mere presence is comforting, calming and consoling. They offer us a safe haven, a comfort zone, the opportunity to relax, let down our guard, live "in the moment". and to be genuinely ourselves. They do not judge us and they accept us exactly as we are. They love us no matter what. In addition, our animal companions are affectionate, amusing and entertaining. They are literally "warm and fuzzy" and offer us true love and affection. They even make us laugh at their antics, engage us in play and exercise and help us forget about our problems. They keep us from being lonely and isolated. Although we live in a world full of stress and anxiety, tension and violence, hostility and negativity and although many of our lives are fraught with fear and dread of what tomorrow may bring, our beloved pets teach us to live in the present moment and with spontaneity. They teach us to accept what is...not to fear the future or dwell on the past.

Many of us find ourselves living far away from family and fiends - our professions, opportunities for higher education and improved financial circumstances, military service, etc. are responsible for our relocation from home and family to new communities, cities, countries and even continents. We are strangers in a new environment and culture. It is difficult to make new friends and to establish meaningful and heartfelt relationships. We live alone. We work alone - many of us barely connecting with one another - many of us interfacing with technology rather than with other human beings.

We seek contact with others - we are in need of friendship, communication and support. Many of us, unable to forge bonds with fellow human beings, adopt animal companions. They become a part of our lives, hearts and homes. There are no secrets between us. We come to know each other intimately. We forge a deep, powerful and genuine bond with them, and in many cases, incorporate and integrate them into members of our families - adopted children, siblings, nieces, nephews, etc.

Few, if any human beings, can offer the beauty and purity, nobility and vulnerability of spirit, loyalty, unconditional love, acceptance, forgiveness and empathy of an animal companion. They are genuinely who they are and allow us, in turn, to be who we genuinely are. There is no pretense, no facade, no agenda, no artifice on the part of our pets - what we see is what we get! We can sigh with relief and satisfaction as we return home to be greeted by our pets after a hard, stress-filled and challenging day at work. Our pets welcome us with unabashed enthusiasm, affection and joy. And we let down our guard - knowing that we can change into our sweat clothes and play on the floor or in the back yard or play room with our animal "kids". We can happily interact with sentient friends who don't judge or talk back to us, friends who calm us down and bring us back to reality with priorities intact, friends who seem to understand us "better" than any of our other human friends.

Our animal companions benefit us emotionally, spiritually and physiologically. There is ample scientific data which proves that pet increase both longevity and quality of life. They provide physical and emotional well-being. The simple act of petting an animal friend has proven to be of significant physical and psychological benefit. A pet has a calming effect. Blood pressure is reduced. Heartbeat is improved. Resistance to disease is heightened and tension and anxiety are decreased. Our animal companions reduce stress, fear and anger. They also decrease sadness, loneliness and depression.

As we are their caregivers and responsible for their physical and emotional well-being, they provide many of us with a reason for getting up in the morning - we are responsible for nurturing, communicating and providing love, exercise, proper diet, nutrition and health care for our animal companions. They are sentient creatures who communicate in a language beyond mere words. When we are alone - whether we are single, young, elderly, widowed, separated, or divorced, these beloved ones by means of their simple presence, comfort and console us; they provide love and affection at home as well as on our errands, vacation and travel time. They're with us 24/7 - when we are reading, writing, at the computer, listening to the radio, watching television, cooking, entertaining, relaxing out on the patio, gardening, socializing, even traveling and on vacation with us. Our animals play a very important role in our general well-being and the way in which we deal with hardship and stress. And the number and intensity of the significant losses (human and otherwise) we have sustained during our lives, will help determine the intensity and amount of time and energy we spend grieving their loss when they die For many of us, our animal companions have afforded us the most stable, comforting and comfortable relationships we have experienced. Yet there are many humans who simply do not understand how deeply we love and care for our animals and who have personally never known the beauty, inspiration and wisdom to be derived from having extensive contact with a loved animal companion. They do not comprehend all the gifts these animals bring to us. For from our pets we learn of life and death, the cycles and seasons of life, the majesty and grandeur of the natural world and the pivotal o link we share with the natural world. There are far too many people who have not had the privilege of experiencing the joy, depth and beauty of knowing a beloved animal companion,, yet they may benefit from the words of the French poet and philosopher, Anatole Fance, who said, "Unless one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened." Those of us privileged enough to know and love animals benefit profoundly and learn so many lessons about life and death; through the observation of and interaction with our pets, we learn much about the meaning and purposefulness of all life and the interconnectedness of all living creatures who share the earth.

From the moment we adopt a loving animal companion, our lives are irrevocably transformed. We learn to SHARE our hearts and our lives with these magnificent creatures; we hopefully make a lifetime commitment to provide health, peace happiness, well-being and harmony to the beautiful ones we adopt. We assume responsibility for their care and well-being. We do our best to ensure that they will share a happy, healthy, peaceful and fulfilling life with us and our other family members. Seldom do we pause and think about the fact that their lives are generally shorter than our own; that they will confront and be diagnosed with diseases and ailments as well as medical treatments similar to our own, that they will grow old and that they will one day die - whether from illness, injury, accident, etc. They, like us, are vulnerable and mortal. Life for them is, as for us, arbitrary, unpredictable and full of loss, grief and adversity. We are friends, teachers and guides to them as they are to us.

From our animal companions we learn much about growing old, for their aging process mirrors and mimics our own. We observe them as they become less active and robust; as they become less alert and attentive; as they lose interest in the food they relished and the toys and games in which they delighted. Their muzzles become grey or white; their gaze becomes dim; their hearing is less acute; they spend most of their time sleeping; they may be immobile and/or incontinent. They isolate and withdraw from us...In so many ways, they are like aging humans...

When our beloved pets have been diagnosed with a terminal illness such as cancer or HIV; when they are in great pain and obviously suffering; when they are not mobile and are incontinent; when they stop eating and drinking; when it is obvious that they are no longer experiencing a significant quality of life, we are faced with several options. One is to simply wait for them to die on their own, "naturally" and let their suffering continue living. The other is to help put a merciful end to their suffering by having them euthanized. Euthanasia is the Greek term meaning "good death", and it is administered by a trusted veterinarian -presumably one that has known you and your pet and provided treatment and advice over the years. The procedure is quick and virtually painless. However, the decision to have a pet euthanized is one of the most difficult and complex decisions we may ever make. It is also one of the least selfish, most compassionate and humane decisions we will make. We have done everything in our power to help our pets - provided loving care, medical attention, special diets, holistic and homeopathic remedies in addition to traditional medical procedures - and yet we have not been able to improve the quality of life for our beloved family member. Before making the decision to euthanize our pet, it is wise to research the subject and reflect upon our own spiritual/religious and philosophical orientation as well as what other religions and philosophies teach.

When it is painfully obvious that our beloved pet is dying, we experience many profound emotions: fear, overwhelming sadness and depression, intense loneliness, anger, frustration, self-pity, anguish, despair, guilt, and helplessness. When our pet dies, we are overcome by even more raw, powerful and painful emotions. Our lives are turned upside down; our daily routines and patterns are disrupted ; our plans for the future are shattered; there is a deep and painful void in our hearts and lives. We dearly miss our loved one. Our hearts have been broken by the loss of our gentle, unceasingly loving and loyal best friend. Initially, we may experience shock and denial, i.e. "I can't believe Jasmine is dead." "It isn't possible that she's not coming back." We may cry uncontrollably; scream in anger and frustration; withdraw and isolate from our friends and family members, lose interest in our jobs and in life itself. We may find ourselves unable to focus or concentrate on the simplest of tasks.. We may feel betrayed by and anger toward God - along with bitterness and resentment. Our hearts ache and we yearn to once again hug and hold our loved one, the one loyal, unconditionally loving and forgiving, trusted and true being who was pure of heart. We may not understand the depth and range of these intense emotions, but the fact is we are grieving!

As a society, most of us are taught little about grief -what it is and how to identify it, articulate it and cope with and recover from it. We are taught not to openly discuss our feelings about the loss of humans let alone an animal. We are advised to "Keep a stiff upper lip", "Be strong", "Get over it", "Move on," Don't burden others with your troubles", "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps". Our friends may be well-intentioned but are awkward and unschooled in the effort to comfort and console us. We, in turn, are ashamed, uncomfortable and embarrassed to acknowledge, let alone openly discuss our grief over the loss of a pet, and so we internalize our feelings even though our hearts may have been broken and the way to begin to recover from grief is to express our feelings openly and forthrightly.

And while it is acceptable and beneficial to mourn the death of a human being, to hold public as well as private funeral or memorial services, wakes and other ceremonies and burials and to eulogize our loved one and to receive sympathy and condolences from our friends, traditionally there have been few, if any of these public ceremonies or rituals available and acceptable which help comfort us and help us recover from our grief over the loss of a pet. However, it should be noted that this situation is changing dramatically as our pets' status and importance in our lives have increased and the public's consciousness regarding the importance of pets in our lives becomes increasingly elevated. Pet funerals, wakes, memorials, tributes and eulogies - even candle light vigils - have become much more common. With increasing frequency, we hold ceremonial burials and services for our pets. We may bury them in our gardens, family burial plots, at pet cemeteries. We may purchase a casket and headstone. We may choose to have them cremated and have their remains placed in an urn. We may choose to have their cremated remains buried in a special place or spread with our own remains at a sacred spot of special emotional or spiritual significance. We choose or design beautiful burial markers and graves; as beloved and cherished family members, their burial is sacred. We may mourn the passing of our beloved pet alone or with family members and friends who knew and loved our animal companion.

We honor, celebrate and memorialize the lives of our loved ones. We make financial endowments in their memory and honor; we donate to our favorite animal welfare organizations on their behalf; we pay for the rescue and care of abandoned, neglected and abused animals. We donate trees, shrubs, park benches ,memorial bricks, etc to honor and memorialize our our departed pets. We may adopt other pets in their honor, for there are so many abandoned, neglected and abused animals in need of loving homes.

When we grieve, we experience a confluence of painful feelings and emotions, but it is important to understand that no two people grieve in the same way. For example, Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, renowned M.D., author and pioneer researcher in the field of death and dying has delineated the 5 phases of bereavement when one is diagnosed with a terminal illness as denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. These do not necessarily apply to grief over the loss of a pet or another human being. We may experience one or more of these phases, but we may feel a vast spectrum of emotions including loneliness,, emptiness, abandonment ,helplessness, hopelessness, anger, guilt, depression and despair, rage and bitterness, etc. There is no prescribed or designated way to grieve; there is no allotted or "normal" time frame in which to grieve. Each of us is unique; the relationship that we had with the loved one was special. The most important aspects of recovering from grief are to know that it is the normal, natural and healthy response to loss and that it is cumulative. In other words, the intensity of the grief we experience over the loss of a loved pet may depend on how many previous losses we have sustained and the emotional and spiritual significance of these losses.

It is important to recognize that we are grieving and to give expression to our true feelings whether through conversations with loving, supportive and empathetic friends and colleagues. It may be helpful to consult with members of the clergy and various staff members of local animal welfare organizations or rescue groups who understand and have themselves experienced the loss of an animal companion. We may wish to contact a psychologist or grief counselor and participate in pet grief support groups. In addition, there are many wonderful books and internet web sites which offer invaluable information on the subject of pet loss, pet death and grief.

Many of us experience profound sadness and loss when our pet dies. We love them and accept them as family member, and once they are gone, the pain of their absence, the void they leave in our lives are immeasurable. We mourn their loss and wish to honor, celebrate and memorialize their lives as we would do with anyone we dearly love. It is becoming increasingly popular to arrange for the death of our pets - we may purchase a burial plot, casket and headstone; we bring flowers to their gravesite; we hold funerals and even candle light vigils for our pets.

In a world full of chaos and confusion , isolation and loneliness, our animal companions bring love to our hearts and joy to our lives. They link us with the world of nature and help us to find peace. It is not surprising that they have become such a vital and integral part of our lives and that we seek to reciprocate and repay their loyalty, beauty, nobility, forgiveness and unconditional love by indulging them during life and honoring and memorializing them upon their death.




DIANE POMERANCE received her Ph.D. in Communications in 1979 from the University of Michigan, and has written the highly acclaimed children's nonfiction book on pet loss, "When Your Pet Dies" which teaches children how to cope with and recover from the loss of a beloved companion animal as well as those inevitable losses in life. She is also the author of "Animal Companions: Your Friends, Teachers & Guides", "Animal Companions: In Our Hearts, Our Lives & Our World.", Animal Elders: Caring About Our Aging Animal Companions", "Finding Peace After the Loss of a Loved Animal Companion", and her most recent book "Pet Parenthood: Adopting the Right Animal Companion for You." Dr. Pomerance counsels those mourning the loss of a beloved companion animal. As a writer, teacher, counselor and animal lover, she recognizes that the loss of a pet can be devastating to adults as well as children.





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